As many of you know, just before moving from Chicago to Fort Lauderdale, I was able to facilitate a semester of XEE with a great group of students at The Chapel in Grayslake, IL. Recently, Tony shared with me a story of how he used what he learned in XEE. I hope you’re as encouraged as I am!
Two weekends ago I went on a retreat with my friend’s church and eleven other kids. There was one kid named Jon who had been going to church for many years and not yet surrendered his life to Jesus. He was one of those kids whose friends were few because most people labeled him as “annoying” and “obnoxious”, and the rest simply ignored him. We rode in the same car on the way out to the retreat. I had a heated spiritual discussion with my best friend, who was also in the car, about: our future, misconceptions in the American church and how grateful we are that God loves us. It was a great discussion that Jon overheard. Unfortunately, at that time, I was one of those who ignored Jon despite my typical kindness to him.
After the ride there, I really felt God encouraging me to love and build a relationship with Jon. I did. We were tossing a tennis ball to each other and talking with one of the leaders for a good hour and a half. The Father revealed to me who Jon is and how beautiful and loved he is. My heart for Jon was becoming in sync with God’s. It was an unspeakable experience! As others piled into the bunks to prepare for bed, we began to talk about who God is and how He loves Jon. Jon learned a lot that night. We enjoyed a great time of prayer together.
Saturday and Sunday, I continued to build a friendship with him. Some of the other kids who went caught on and also talked to Jon. The Holy Spirit in Nick, Zack, and I had really inspired him in remarkable ways. I have never felt so Spirit-filled than when I obeyed God’s commands and actually talked to Jon. I could feel the Spirit moving mountains in me! I didn’t see it in Jon until the youth group that Monday.
He had been thinking about what we said and who God is and who he himself is, and he declared to the youth group that he would make a dramatic change in his faith… next Sunday. I imagine God’s not too big on procrastination, because that night was the most life-changing experience he had ever encountered. At youth group, Jon decided that God probably didn’t like certain aspects of his lifestyle. Out of obedience, he began making the changes.
That night Jon described as “the saddest night of my life, and the happiest night of my life! I guess God couldn’t wait till Sunday — He wanted me to change my faith that day”.
All this because I obeyed God by building a relationship with someone. I will never be the same in the way I deal with my relationships. Also I hope this may have inspired you guys to develop relationships for the glory of God. Once you do that, it seems like the Holy Spirit just takes over and fills you with fruit and speaks through you. It’s AMAZING!



